Not A Guilt Catcher
There is a concept that some people are "guilt throwers" and others are "guilt catchers" - pretty self explanatory....I am not a "Catcher' and I think that frequently annoys my boss because several times now I feel that she has tried to guilt me into staying longer than my shift - I'm happy to stick around for a bit, however I plan other things besides work. I leave when I get the courage to say that I really need to go now, but sometimes that is not till like an hour after I was supposed to clock off....even then it is met with grumbles...I decided that they can take me when they have rostered me on, and not when they haven't! It was even suggested to me that I put Jazmin in daycare so I can come and work day-shift. I can't do day-shift any more because Justin has got a new job which he starts on Monday. Putting Jazmin in daycare is not a consideration for me right now. I want to be with her, and I believe that it's my job to do that first and foremost. Anyway, it's kind of OK, but I am still getting used to closing which I did last night, got home around 2am.
The replacement washing machine blew up tonight, and it is going to cost more to get it fixed than it would for a new one, so we'll have to get a new one soon.
The replacement washing machine blew up tonight, and it is going to cost more to get it fixed than it would for a new one, so we'll have to get a new one soon.
1 Comments:
After reading your last entry, i really felt for you. I read something last night that really hit home for me and may help you with your situation... the quote goes "have you eliminated almost every meaningful activity i order to deal with the tyranny of never-ending "to do" list?" it goes on to say, are our daily activities really more important than taking time to love someone special or reach out to the many others whose paths we cross? I think you are doing the right thing by being their for Jazmin. She is your future, she will be there in the future for you God willing. Hope your coping ok. I miss you guys. Take care love emm
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